Comments on: Are you a good receiver? http://OasisOfInspiration.com/money-and-finance/are-you-a-good-receiver/ Inspiring you with "Just that little bit extra......" Sat, 19 May 2012 18:45:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: OysTeR http://OasisOfInspiration.com/money-and-finance/are-you-a-good-receiver/#comment-29 OysTeR Wed, 11 Jul 2007 06:16:19 +0000 http://OasisOfInspiration.com/money-and-finance/are-you-a-good-receiver/#comment-29 <p><Sometimes, I feel it is not that people feel that they do not deserve or unworthy to receive, but maybe we are so dependent that we cannot identify what we want to receive or what we perceive as our “needs”.></p> <p>Well said Andrew! I have the same sentiments too. In counselling, we call that co-dependency. Where people get confused between "Taking responsibility for one's own life" vs "Expecting someone else to give them what they need". It creates a very manipulative relationship, which is what we see prevalent in Singapore culture today.</p> <p>My hope then for Singapore is for people to reclaim that 'responsibility' so that they can start on the journey towards personal freedom.</p> <p>Have a good day my friend.</p> <Sometimes, I feel it is not that people feel that they do not deserve or unworthy to receive, but maybe we are so dependent that we cannot identify what we want to receive or what we perceive as our “needs”.>

Well said Andrew! I have the same sentiments too. In counselling, we call that co-dependency. Where people get confused between “Taking responsibility for one’s own life” vs “Expecting someone else to give them what they need”. It creates a very manipulative relationship, which is what we see prevalent in Singapore culture today.

My hope then for Singapore is for people to reclaim that ‘responsibility’ so that they can start on the journey towards personal freedom.

Have a good day my friend.

]]> By: Andrew Choong http://OasisOfInspiration.com/money-and-finance/are-you-a-good-receiver/#comment-28 Andrew Choong Tue, 10 Jul 2007 19:34:51 +0000 http://OasisOfInspiration.com/money-and-finance/are-you-a-good-receiver/#comment-28 I read through T Harv Eker book and he has a lot of valid points. Attracting wealth or not really depends on what we want and what our desires are. Especially in Singapore, we are so used to depending on the government that we lose our desire to achieve our own success and be ready to receive the wealth that comes along with success. Sometimes, I feel it is not that people feel that they do not deserve or unworthy to receive, but maybe we are so dependent that we cannot identify what we want to receive or what we perceive as our "needs". I read through T Harv Eker book and he has a lot of valid points. Attracting wealth or not really depends on what we want and what our desires are. Especially in Singapore, we are so used to depending on the government that we lose our desire to achieve our own success and be ready to receive the wealth that comes along with success.

Sometimes, I feel it is not that people feel that they do not deserve or unworthy to receive, but maybe we are so dependent that we cannot identify what we want to receive or what we perceive as our “needs”.

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