Many times I see good people seeking to make relationships work……. or people who lost hope on ever having a great relationship, I hope there was something that could just give them a little hope about relationships.

I also see friends of mine, whom… because they didn’t nurture their relationships well from the beginning, end up getting a seperation. Ain’t this sad, aren’t we all good people who just want relationships to work?

So why do couples choose to be “Right” rather than choose to be Harmonious? To choose to fight or choose to “teach the other a lesson” rather than talk it out and resolve? Is our egos so important that it is worth ruining a great relationship?

Barbara De Angelis said in an audio program, withholding information from your other half about even as trivial as something that happened at the workplace, is like putting a brick in between you and your loved one. When all these bricks finally become a brick wall, couples come to a stage where they say things like… “I know I love him/her, but I don’t feel like I’m IN LOVE with him/her”. Ain’t that tragic? When all that is needed to rekindle the love in that relationship is to open up communication again? Something to think about…

But rather than letting relationships come to a sorry stage, perhaps I could share with you some info that builds relationships properly, on a day-to-day basis so as to create a strong foundation in your relationship. For those who are single, I hope that the 10 things happy couples do can give you some added inspiration about relationships.

Ultimately, my hope for the world is for people to have happy, fulfilling relationships that nurture individuals as well as allow couples to attain couple goals, with strong and lasting love still growing from strength to strength. Hey, perhaps even the troubled youth situation could be reduced.

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3 Responses to “The 10 things happy couples do”

  1. don says:

    hi andrew, reading this post makes me want to fall in love..hehe.. however, i am not looking for a long term relationship.. i am a heart breaker to any who wants a committed long term relationship..this is the reason why i often walk around from entering into a relationship with a nice lady.. heehee

  2. OysTeR says:

    Hi Donald,

    Stay congruent to yourself. As the saying goes… .”You’ll continue doing what you are doing, up till a point when it doesn’t serve you anymore.” lah….. When that time comes, you know I’ll still be around. hehehe. Keep the faith ya?


  3. Donald says:

    yeah, people do change..maybe the right girl is not here yet!
    let’s nature take its course..
    not in a is just the beginning! 😀

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