How to manifest True Love that LASTS!
Posted by: OysTeR in Inspirational, Law of Attraction, RelationshipsMany of us have heard of the Law of Attraction and how it can be used to manifest Lasting Love and Meaningful relationships. However, how many of us have really tested it out and manifested the relationship we wanted? Allow me to share this story as it is one of the greatest success stories of my life.
In March 2000, I came out of a 5 year dysfunctional relationship which really drained me and left me jaded about relationships. It wasn’t really a question of who’s fault it was, I guess we were just not compatible for each other. Despite putting in a lot of effort to make the relationship work, it had always felt like we brought out the worst in each other and therefore had to end a bittersweet realtionship.
Over the next few months, I opened myself to healing and “took a break” from dating and partying. Synchronistically, somehow Rangy Gage’s audio program “Prosperity” landed into my possession and it taught me about the Law of Attraction and manifesting the dream relationship I always wanted. Initially I was skeptical about it but by faith I decided to put the law to the test. Moreover, at that time, I was ready to release all the old painful patterns of “getting into the wrong relationships”. (I know some of you can relate to this)
Here’s what I did. I wrote out on a piece of paper all the things I wanted in my dream relationship. I wrote them in 3 main categories:
- How does my dream girl look like
- What are the characteristics that I’m looking for in my girlfriend
- How are we going to complement each other
I wrote them down in point form, describing in detail. After which, I pasted the list next to my bed and I read it once before I went to sleep and once after I woke up. I did this everyday without fail.
Here’s the good part… after 3 weeks of ‘doing the work’, I met the girl of my dreams. I didn’t really recognise her at first but after a few interactions, I noticed that she fit the looks description I wrote. Of course, I made the effort to get to know her better and we started dating. As we got to know each other better, I realised that she fit EVERY DESCRIPTION that I wrote! Here’s the strange part. It was so accurate in detail to the point. What I had forgotten to write on my list was… “She’s gotta be a good cook.” My girlfriend fitted every description that I wrote but she can’t cook. Anyway, I’m not complaining man! I manifested the relationship that I wanted. 
It’s been 6 years, coming 7 years now and we’ve been through thick and thin but our relationship is strengthening day by day. (BTW, the 10 things happy couple do…. that’s in my Inspi-resources page, we do it everyday…. even before I got to know such an article existed.) On top of the 10 things list, we also practice being non-judgmental towards each other, choosing to clarify rather than assume. We’re still very much in love and yeah, we have our days of petty squabbles too but we always reconcile and choose to resolve. Accepting, Loving and Supporting has become a habit already. As our ex-boss Roger puts it, “these two comes in a package.” 
Why am I sharing with you all these? It is not to boast or impress you, it is to impress upon you that YOU TOO can manifest the relationship of your dreams. One where you complement each other and live in harmony. Supporting and growing together, towards individual as well as couple dreams. To be able to face challenges together and emerge stronger and closer to each other.
Please do write to me should you have any questions. I’ll be glad to answer any queries you might have.
Have a Pleasant Love Life
Ko Ming - This is dedicated to you. xxooxx
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July 1st, 2007 at 11:33 pm
Thanks for sharing this tips Andrew. I can use this
And I know there’s lots of single guys and girls out there who do too!
July 1st, 2007 at 11:49 pm
Hi Chee Kui,
You’re most welcome! It was a pleasure meeting up with you. I’m glad that the message can help people who are seeking true lasting relationships. Check out the 10 things happy couples do in my inspi-resources page too.
Cheers,
Andrew
July 2nd, 2007 at 12:44 am
yeah =) It’s my pleasure to have a chance to meet you, Ko Ming and Donald too..
And I have already read the inspi-resource page too.
July 2nd, 2007 at 1:28 am
Glad you find it useful.
July 2nd, 2007 at 1:21 pm
Well, what can i say? that my little bro has grown so much wiser?
I could use these tips for myself too…
Good work on your site. Ich drucke meine Daumen für dich an… simply meaning i wish you all the best (to whatever you will do with this site)
July 2nd, 2007 at 2:02 pm
Thanks sis again for the encouragement. Much appreaciated. Perhaps you could share these information with your friends too, to benefit them.
July 3rd, 2007 at 8:54 pm
Stumbled!
July 3rd, 2007 at 11:25 pm
Thanks Chee Kui!
December 25th, 2007 at 3:51 am
I am sooooo happy for you! It is my intent to manifest true love in 2008. Like you I have been through an incompatible relationship that left me motivated to experience true love. I know that it is possible. I know that the right guy for me is needing me just as much as I need him. I pray for him and believe me when I say my heart beats for this person (literally). I know that he is not too far away.
December 26th, 2007 at 2:08 pm
Hi June,
I’m motivated for you too! Having experienced how the Law of Attraction worked in my relationship. I KNOW you can manifest that right guy of yours. Keep the faith!
I also wanted to add a note that prayer is most effective when it is used with Gratitude. I believe that what you asked for has already been given to you. It is up to you to receive it. So when prayer is used as a “Thank you God for presenting this …. into my life, I’m truly grateful.”, you allow yourself to receive what you requested for.
When I practiced the LOA in my relationship, she Appeared in my life 3 weeks after I started practicing it. So I believe your right guy is literally, not too far away.
Sincerely,
Andrew
February 16th, 2008 at 8:03 pm
Andrew,
Thanks for sharing.
This is important not only for singles but for persons in relationships who know that they are truly not happy but who are scared to choose that they deserve more.
Sometimes it’s just time to say ‘I love you, thanks for this relationship and now it’s time to follow our separate paths’. This way, after doing the work on self healing, clarity and focus that you so well described, a truly satisfying and fulfilling partnership can be manifested.
Blessings and keep up the great work/play!
Angela.
May 22nd, 2009 at 5:56 pm
Hey Oyster…I totally relate with your story..I was in a Five year relationship that started going bittersweet in the 4th year…Didnt find anyone who suited some of my “Requirements list” (as i called it) for another 2 years… just broke off a 3 1/2 year relationship with that someone i thought was the one but was still too immature and petty minded when it came to certain issues. My mind wants my body to leave this country and fly to a new land in search of her but still sense it wont be “HER”… but ll try your technique for sure and with a new mind-set maybe she’ll be on the Flight :D… Thanks again.. really enjoyed reading all the posts here..will check back soon…how do i subscribe to all your articles…only found Spirutual news feed??
May 24th, 2009 at 3:18 pm
Hi Aum,
Glad you found that post useful. I sincerely wish you all the best in finding your soul mate.
You can subscribe to my blog using this link http://oasisofinspiration.com/feed/
Remember, these LOA techniques are 100% accurate… sooooo “Be careful what you wish for, cos you might just get it.”