Many of us have heard of the Law of Attraction and how it can be used to manifest Lasting Love and Meaningful relationships. However, how many of us have really tested it out and manifested the relationship we wanted? Allow me to share this story as it is one of the greatest success stories of my life.
In March 2000, I came out of a 5 year dysfunctional relationship which really drained me and left me jaded about relationships. It wasn’t really a question of who’s fault it was, I guess we were just not compatible for each other. Despite putting in a lot of effort to make the relationship work, it had always felt like we brought out the worst in each other and therefore had to end a bittersweet realtionship.
Over the next few months, I opened myself to healing and “took a break” from dating and partying. Synchronistically, somehow Rangy Gage’s audio program “Prosperity” landed into my possession and it taught me about the Law of Attraction and manifesting the dream relationship I always wanted. Initially I was skeptical about it but by faith I decided to put the law to the test. Moreover, at that time, I was ready to release all the old painful patterns of “getting into the wrong relationships”. (I know some of you can relate to this)
Here’s what I did. I wrote out on a piece of paper all the things I wanted in my dream relationship. I wrote them in 3 main categories:
- How does my dream girl look like
- What are the characteristics that I’m looking for in my girlfriend
- How are we going to complement each other
I wrote them down in point form, describing in detail. After which, I pasted the list next to my bed and I read it once before I went to sleep and once after I woke up. I did this everyday without fail.
Here’s the good part… after 3 weeks of ‘doing the work’, I met the girl of my dreams. I didn’t really recognise her at first but after a few interactions, I noticed that she fit the looks description I wrote. Of course, I made the effort to get to know her better and we started dating. As we got to know each other better, I realised that she fit EVERY DESCRIPTION that I wrote! Here’s the strange part. It was so accurate in detail to the point. What I had forgotten to write on my list was… “She’s gotta be a good cook.” My girlfriend fitted every description that I wrote but she can’t cook. Anyway, I’m not complaining man! I manifested the relationship that I wanted.
It’s been 6 years, coming 7 years now and we’ve been through thick and thin but our relationship is strengthening day by day. (BTW, the 10 things happy couple do…. that’s in my Inspi-resources page, we do it everyday…. even before I got to know such an article existed.) On top of the 10 things list, we also practice being non-judgmental towards each other, choosing to clarify rather than assume. We’re still very much in love and yeah, we have our days of petty squabbles too but we always reconcile and choose to resolve. Accepting, Loving and Supporting has become a habit already. As our ex-boss Roger puts it, “these two comes in a package.”
Why am I sharing with you all these? It is not to boast or impress you, it is to impress upon you that YOU TOO can manifest the relationship of your dreams. One where you complement each other and live in harmony. Supporting and growing together, towards individual as well as couple dreams. To be able to face challenges together and emerge stronger and closer to each other.
Please do write to me should you have any questions. I’ll be glad to answer any queries you might have.
Have a Pleasant Love Life
Ko Ming - This is dedicated to you. xxooxx